Dear Nicholas,
This is being written as a part of the American Dream Campaign and is meant to share my thoughts as to the opportunities presented to us because of the freedoms we enjoy as Americans. As you are well aware, these freedoms are the results of much forethought, bravery, and effort on the part of the country’s founding fathers, as well as the sacrifices made by countless others through wars, economic turmoil, and political unrest.
Though these opportunities are available, it is up to you to take advantage of them… to decide what you want to achieve, accomplish, and create. As George Bernard Shaw said, “People are always blaming where they are in life on circumstance. I don’t believe in circumstances. Those who get on in this world are those who find the circumstances they want. And if they don’t find them, they create them.”
Your grandfather is a living example of this. Having grown up poor in Florence, AL, he enlisted in the Marines for WWII, fought his way through the Pacific, and returned with a new sense of determination; that is, he determined he would be successful.
After graduating from college, he began creating his career. Soon, not satisfied with his circumstances, he created his own by starting his own company and went on to distinguish himself and become a leader in his field. But nothing was given or expected. He earned it through planning, hard work, and sacrifice.
Others like him, these members of the “greatest generation,” create an example and legacy for us to follow: that your future really is up to you. No excuses, no blame. It will be built on your personal commitment to your dream. It will not be easy and there will be numerous obstacles. Will you have the grit and determination to overcome them? Will you see the obstacles for what they are… opportunities that will stop others and allow you to separate and prove yourself? Will you demand yourself to fully develop the talents and abilities God has given you and refuse to fall short of your dreams? Will you create the circumstance you want, rather than accepting and settling for those put in your path?
Truly, your future is up to you. You are in a country that, despite those who seek to socialize our achievements, still rewards individual excellence. It is up to you. What future will you create?
With much love and hope,
Dad