So that we could better grasp His love for us and the cherished connection He desires to have with us, God established the father-child relationship theme beginning in Genesis and running throughout the Bible. When we understand this powerful spiritual metaphor, we understand the truth of God and the biblical worldview that naturally follows.

The Bible teaches that God is all-loving, all-powerful, all-knowing, merciful, just, and unchanging. God knows everything about us and loves us anyway. It is an awesome thought to contemplate. Our heavenly Father cares for us, cheers for us, and wants the best for us. The apostle Paul presents a beautiful description of God and the things of God as lovely, pure, true, gracious, just, excellent, and worthy of praise (Philippians 4:8).

This Father’s Day, I want you to consider the influence and blessing of our three fathers, beginning naturally with our heavenly Father. There are many ways we can imitate our heavenly father. We imitate God when we tell the truth, when we act in love, when we show grace, when we are faithful to our spouses, when we are wise stewards of our resources, when we are industrious, when we demonstrate faith, and so on. When we copy God’s ways, we reflect His character in our lives.

We imitate God when we are productive human beings, when we employ our natural gifts, and when we encourage others, especially our children, to do likewise. When God created you and me, He planted within us the instinct and drive to work, invent, produce, create, and own, because in doing so, we imitate Him, assign credit to Him, and further His creation. Paul said, “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children” (Ephesians 5:1).

Next, consider the blessing of our nation’s Founding Fathers who were, of course, inspired by our heavenly Father. They understood the character of God and the nature of man. At great risk and with even greater faith, the Founders established the essential fundamentals of a highly successful nation. As a result of following their principles, rooted in biblical truth, America became the most prosperous and generous nation in all of human history. As we have drifted from the Founder’s game plan, we have, no doubt, left many unclaimed blessings on the table.

Our Founding Fathers believed that God made us with free will, with the insatiable appetite for freedom and with a distinct purpose to fulfill. Therefore, their goal was to create a government that was most in harmony with God’s creation, most in line with rewarding and enhancing the positive aspects of human nature that lead to productive behavior, true stewardship, and the highly sought after praise of, “Well Done My Good and Faithful Servant.”

There’s a reason why immigrants have streamed into America for over two hundred years: it’s the greatest land of opportunity ever created. No matter where you come from, this is where you have a legitimate shot at designing your life and making your dreams come true. In America, your life can become an example for others to follow or a warning for others to heed. And this brings us to our earthly father and the annual tradition of Father’s Day.

Through their words, actions and investment in us, our dads teach us about life, bolster our reservoir of wisdom and shape the legacy they will leave behind with the life we lead. Unlike our heavenly Father, none of our dads is the perfect example for us to follow. But, that’s what God is for, right? However, the older I have become the wiser my dad certainly appears to be. Getting back to the basic in my own life essentially means getting back to the advice my dad always gives me. If we are fortunate, our dads are mentors, role models and coaches all rolled into one. Fully engaged fathers can help their kids dream, risk, serve, grow, bounce back from adversity and reach their full potential. By believing in us, our dads can help us to see ourselves as big as God created us to be…and this can make all the difference in the world.

This Father’s Day, we might all do well to remember and learn from our three fathers.

While the Saints just officially won the Super Bowl, can’t you just hear the discussion inside the West Wing…

“The Saints displayed unfair drive, ambition, work ethic and therefore have created for themselves an unfair advantage resulting in a victory that could have gone to an equally deserving Colts team. The unexpected and innovative on-sides kick to begin the second half caused an emotional disparity that lead to an uneven quality of play for the Saints. Government should step in immediately and create some regulations that even things out a bit. Maybe we can make this new legislation retroactive.

And let’s not stop there. Let’s abolish the worn out notion of ‘losing.’

Never again will there be so many teams who have to watch the Super Bowl from home. We should be inclusive and bring more teams, all teams under the tent of the Super Bowl…

In the NFL, we should all rise and fall together!”

TROPHIES FOR EVERYONE!!

Reality or Satire?

GOOD GRIEF

Principles worth Practicing

If we are not aware of them, or worse yet, we choose to ignore them, the principles of life tend to be equal opportunity destroyers. Take gravity for example. If no one ever explained the nature of gravity and we accidentally stepped off the two story deck at our neighbor’s home, we’d all go straight down, never up. It wouldn’t even make a difference if we were in a protected demographic class and had special rights; we’d still go down. That’s how natural law works. It is incapable of discrimination, which is, I suppose, why social engineers harbor such antagonism toward it.

When we align our life with timeless principles or Natural Law, we experience a surge of confidence, competence, and unparalleled optimism for the future. But the responsibility for learning about these principles and then living in a manner consistent with them is completely up to each of us as individuals. We cannot take the default position of simply making up our own little pet laws of life. We see the destruction and despair all around us; the natural consequence breaking Natural Law. As the old saying goes, “Ignorance of the law is no excuse.” We can break man-made laws and frequently escape without a penalty.

Timeless principles have a way of tracking us down and serving us with the unpleasant consequences despite our ignorance or best intentions. If we are serious about developing all the potential within us, we must avoid the trendy “principe du jour” mentality that has smothered our society. Be on the lookout! It is common for current political leaders to use the word “principle” in lieu of other less appealing words like “idea, notion, theory, program, and whim.” However, I’ve been coaching entrepreneurs for nearly twenty years and it has become abundantly clear to me that when an individual’s life or business is off track, it is inevitably the result of drifting from proven principles.

When entrepreneurs recalibrate with authentic principles, their business or personal life becomes more successful, productive and harmonious. It is no mystery. It is not an accident. And it is the same for our country as a whole.

Principles matter most.

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Dear Trey, Hope and Zach,

We have had the incredible blessing of living in the USA, where freedom and opportunity have been the cornerstones. Your great grandfather was an entrepreneur, and he put forth great diligence and effort to build a successful business in the furniture industry in Atlanta.

This business was passed down to my father (your grandfather) and it thrived for many years. It was ultimately wiped out by debt and the desire to grow too fast. That was the ultimate demise. Unwise choices caused the problem, not other people or the lack of government regulations.

In our country today, we are facing a deteriorating economy as the result of greed, incompetence and mismanagement. Too many people are attempting to live beyond their means, and we have a banking system that has conducted itself foolishly as well.

To make matters worse, our government is spending money it does not have, and plans to leave this unprecedented debt for you and your children to pay back. Think about what this might mean to your future hopes and dreams.

Remember that many of the problems we’re facing today are the result of a largely inept government interfering in the private sector and then blaming the private sector for the inevitable confusion and inefficiency that naturally follows such meddling. Using the economic crisis as his justification, our new President is attempting to diminish our individual freedom and opportunity to solve the problems.

But, this is no solution. America was built on a belief in God and the inalienable principles documented in the Bible!

We have no chance of succeeding and maintaining our individual freedom if we continue to distance ourselves from these founding principles. But this is the path we are on, and it is a prescription for disaster.

I am excited about each of you being parents and leaders in the next generation, but you need to be aware that the current administration appears to be putting obstacles in place to diminish your available freedom and upside opportunity when you grow up.

I know that you can be part of a real solution. I encourage you to stand up for the real principles. Be loud and refuse to back down. Never rely on government, but depend on God and be willing to personally pay the price of success in all areas of life.

As I write this letter, I am praying that you will have the wisdom to perceive what is true and what is false. Politicians will make promises for votes and power, but rest assured they can’t deliver the life that you de-serve.

I Love You Unconditionally!
Dad

Dear Nicholas,

This is being written as a part of the American Dream Campaign and is meant to share my thoughts as to the opportunities presented to us because of the freedoms we enjoy as Americans. As you are well aware, these freedoms are the results of much forethought, bravery, and effort on the part of the country’s founding fathers, as well as the sacrifices made by countless others through wars, economic turmoil, and political unrest.

Though these opportunities are available, it is up to you to take advantage of them… to decide what you want to achieve, accomplish, and create. As George Bernard Shaw said, “People are always blaming where they are in life on circumstance. I don’t believe in circumstances. Those who get on in this world are those who find the circumstances they want. And if they don’t find them, they create them.”

Your grandfather is a living example of this. Having grown up poor in Florence, AL, he enlisted in the Marines for WWII, fought his way through the Pacific, and returned with a new sense of determination; that is, he determined he would be successful.

After graduating from college, he began creating his career. Soon, not satisfied with his circumstances, he created his own by starting his own company and went on to distinguish himself and become a leader in his field. But nothing was given or expected. He earned it through planning, hard work, and sacrifice.

Others like him, these members of the “greatest generation,” create an example and legacy for us to follow: that your future really is up to you. No excuses, no blame. It will be built on your personal commitment to your dream. It will not be easy and there will be numerous obstacles. Will you have the grit and determination to overcome them? Will you see the obstacles for what they are… opportunities that will stop others and allow you to separate and prove yourself? Will you demand yourself to fully develop the talents and abilities God has given you and refuse to fall short of your dreams? Will you create the circumstance you want, rather than accepting and settling for those put in your path?

Truly, your future is up to you. You are in a country that, despite those who seek to socialize our achievements, still rewards individual excellence. It is up to you. What future will you create?

With much love and hope,
Dad

Dear Emma and Katherine:

As we discuss during our ride to school most mornings, I am deeply concerned at the current direction of our nation. I am convinced that continuing our present path will lead to certain financial ruin for this country. The continually increasing intrusion of government into our daily lives, the vilification of successful (and happy) individuals and the erosion of personal responsibility will lead us to further devalue personal success and effort and excellence.

However, I want to share with you my hope for you and indeed for our nation. As we have also discussed exhaustively, your grandfather began life on a rural farm that was can only be described as primitive. In fact, I can recall in one my earliest memories my father and uncles installing running water (read: a bathroom) in my grandparents farm house. The family raised most of their food, made most of their clothes and had only a radio to keep up with events outside their “small world”. I can also remember their first TV with 2 channels!

They were a fiercely independent family and valued this independence more than I can describe. They lived simply. And at the risk of using an overused cliché, the children truly walked many miles to school each day, regardless of the weather. They returned home to help with the innumerable chores and work required of farm life.

What is instructive is that each of the children grew up to find success as entrepreneurs and professionals. While only one graduated from college (law degree from Northwestern University), the others together started several businesses and found their definition of success in a hardscrabble rural economy. My father started with surplus WWII equipment and little capital and built one of the most admirable companies in the area. He was known to everyone as hardworking, diligent, independent and industrious. (So industrious that my father and uncle built, from scratch, the first school bus in our poor county.)

With no help (and little intrusion) from the government he created an enterprise providing employment to many people whose only job options can described as dismal. The opportunity to work for his company was valued and viewed as a step to a better life in a tough place. He created for his employees both a positive environment and a path leading to a better life.

I am certain that the only place this story can be told is in America. There is no system other than free enterprise where someone of little resources can, through persistence and freedom, create a better life for their family, employees and for themselves. The system that led this nation to become the world’s strongest, most influential and dominant economy in only 130 years makes the story of my father and his family possible. This country’s success story is made up of my family’s journey experienced by countless others in a different time and place.

So while I am discouraged by the national mood at the moment, I know that this too shall pass. I firmly believe that our country will again discover the miracle of small, independent business. If I did not have faith in the underlying principles that have guided this country I would not work and sacrifice as I do. And, I know that with the same hard work and long-term perspective, you too will find happiness, success and significance. You too will have an opportunity to create a better environment and opportunity for yourself and others. You too will be able to enjoy the satisfaction of creating something of significance that makes this country a better place and furthers its potential.

Love,
Dad

DEAR MR. PRESIDENT

DEAR MR. PRESIDENT,

I HAVE THE HIGH HONOR AND DISTINCT PRIVILEGE of writing to you on behalf of millions of leading entrepreneurs, small business owners, salespeople, and executives whose creativity, work ethic, and personal responsibility make up the backbone of the American economic engine and therefore keep the American Dream alive.

These individuals have become highly paid because they are highly productive. For some reason, however, you do not refer to these Americans as “working people”—you typically call them “the rich.” But with all due respect Mr. President, they work indeed, often putting in sixty, seventy, and even eighty hour weeks in order to satisfy their customers and expand their businesses.

These are the most successful Americans who create vast numbers of jobs. And yet, contrary to your campaign promises of “hope” for all Americans, you have singled them out for condemnation and expropriation. You say we need to spread their wealth around in the interests of fairness. You vow to make them pay higher taxes, even though they already pay far more than anyone else. You bury their businesses in a morass of red-tape and useless regulation. You attempt to make the government—instead of their customers—the arbiter of their success.

Mr. President, I am writing to ask that you STOP THE WAR ON SUCCESS!

I have been working with entrepreneurs and small business owners and their families for nearly twenty years. The picture you paint of the free market, the business world, and successful business owners is totally foreign to me. You speak of successful Americans as if they’re all corrupt corporate CEOs. Do you not understand that many of the very people you denounce are small businessmen and businesswomen who earned their own wealth?

You speak of a rich man as selfish, but do you see the jobs he has created? You speak of him as having more than he needs, but did you see how little he had when he accepted the risk of starting his own business? You speak of luck, but did you see the years of misfortune that preceded his success? You speak of him as “privileged,” but have you heard that fewer than 20 percent of rich Americans inherited their wealth?

I have seen firsthand that these individuals have unbelievable work ethics and the highest integrity. Imaginative and innovative, they create jobs out of thin air. They treat their employees like family. They are compassionate and giving and donate a greater percentage of their income to churches and charities than public records reveal most of our elected officials do, including you and your vice president. Many have failed repeatedly, and yet they get back up and take another shot at excellence.

Mr. President, I do not know what it’s like to be a community organizer. I have no firsthand experience so I will keep my mouth shut and my pen silent on such matters. It is impossible to expect you, as president, to remain equally quiet about business matters. But perhaps your utter lack of experience in this realm should be cause for some humility. You have not taken the risks of starting and growing your own business or participating in the free marketplace at all. You do not understand what business really is; it is certainly not what you present it to be.

One can fairly ask why your commitment to spreading the wealth around only applies to business—and not to politics. For example, ­shouldn’t it apply to your position of President of the United States? By achieving this position, you have attained disproportionate status and power in your field. In politics, you are the “super-rich.” So ­shouldn’t you spread your political wealth around to those who have not been as fortunate as you? ­Doesn’t your enthusiasm for “redistributive justice” mean some of your enormous power should be taken from you and given to others who have less power?

This, no doubt, will sound ludicrous to you, as you worked hard for many years to get where you are today. Why should you have to give away the fruits of your own success? In your mind, it is only the entrepreneur whose success should be expropriated and spread around. The politically powerful, like yourself, are mysteriously exempt from the demands of equality.
Finally Mr. President, consider the message you are sending to America’s young people. I truly believe our greatest generations are still to come, but it will never happen if our children believe the messages transmitted by your rhetoric and policies: that no one can succeed on their own, that business is fundamentally dishonorable and dishonest, that only the government can save us from the depredations of businessmen and businesswomen, and that anyone who is financially successful is a societal parasite.

The entrepreneurial class you demonize is largely responsible for America’s high standard of living and its unprecedented pace of technological innovation. Think about the consequences of your relentless attack on these people and everything they represent—success, prosperity, upward mobility, and self-sufficiency. Whether through your rhetoric of class warfare or through your policies of expropriation and redistribution, you are undermining this vital group of Americans. America may indeed become more equal without these entrepreneurs, but it will be the equality of poverty and mediocrity, of underachievement and apathy.

And now I ask you, Mr. President: where’s the hope in that?

We must get out of the stands!

We are at a defining moment, a turning point that will shape the rest of our lives and that of our children and our grandchildren’s children. We must join the debate.

We must get out of the stands and onto the field where we can influence the game that is being played with our future and our posterity. We must refuse to lose this fight.

We must refuse to abandon the principles that brought our country this far, elevated our aspirations, and created unprecedented leaps in prosperity.

Will you join me in the fight?
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Up until now, we have relied on our elected officials to represent and defend the cause of freedom and the hope of individual success. This must change. We can no longer abdicate our fight to professional politicians.

We need to organize, march, protest, and agitate – not to get free stuff, but to get free-dom – to get the government off our backs and out of the way. Passivity, at this moment, is unacceptable.

No more sitting around, moaning and groaning.

Let’s do something huge.

Let’s put the pressure on!

Will you join me in the fight?
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If he succeeds

George Gilder wrote beautifully and accurately about America’s economic catalyst, “Entrepreneur: He casts aside his assurance of 40-hour weeks, leaves the safe cover of tenure and security, and charges across the perilous fields of change and opportunity. If he succeeds, his profits will come not from what he takes from his fellow citizens, but from the value they freely place on the gift of his imagination.