Whatever holds our attention molds our intention. Whatever we emphasize with our thoughts, words, or deeds multiplies in our mind. Naturally, whatever we ignore begins to atrophy and fade away. At any given moment, we can choose to pay attention to what’s present or what’s missing, what’s working or what’s broken, what we achieved or what we messed up, what’s available or what’s unavailable, what’s possible or what’s impossible, and what excites us or what frightens us.

The longer we can sustain a positive mental image, the more progress we’ll make and the more gratitude we can enjoy. No area of our life is untouched by our thoughts. Although people aren’t automatically positive, neither are we hopelessly negative.

Our life tends to imitate the thoughts that we entertain most consistently. The corollary of this is that we feel what we dwell upon. To experience more joy in life, we can reflect and meditate upon our blessings. If we care to experience less joy, we can always dwell upon our disappointments and shortcomings.

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So that we could better grasp His love for us and the cherished connection He desires to have with us, God established the father-child relationship theme beginning in Genesis and running throughout the Bible. When we understand this powerful spiritual metaphor, we understand the truth of God and the biblical worldview that naturally follows.

The Bible teaches that God is all-loving, all-powerful, all-knowing, merciful, just, and unchanging. God knows everything about us and loves us anyway. It is an awesome thought to contemplate. Our heavenly Father cares for us, cheers for us, and wants the best for us. The apostle Paul presents a beautiful description of God and the things of God as lovely, pure, true, gracious, just, excellent, and worthy of praise (Philippians 4:8).

This Father’s Day, I want you to consider the influence and blessing of our three fathers, beginning naturally with our heavenly Father. There are many ways we can imitate our heavenly father. We imitate God when we tell the truth, when we act in love, when we show grace, when we are faithful to our spouses, when we are wise stewards of our resources, when we are industrious, when we demonstrate faith, and so on. When we copy God’s ways, we reflect His character in our lives.

We imitate God when we are productive human beings, when we employ our natural gifts, and when we encourage others, especially our children, to do likewise. When God created you and me, He planted within us the instinct and drive to work, invent, produce, create, and own, because in doing so, we imitate Him, assign credit to Him, and further His creation. Paul said, “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children” (Ephesians 5:1).

Next, consider the blessing of our nation’s Founding Fathers who were, of course, inspired by our heavenly Father. They understood the character of God and the nature of man. At great risk and with even greater faith, the Founders established the essential fundamentals of a highly successful nation. As a result of following their principles, rooted in biblical truth, America became the most prosperous and generous nation in all of human history. As we have drifted from the Founder’s game plan, we have, no doubt, left many unclaimed blessings on the table.

Our Founding Fathers believed that God made us with free will, with the insatiable appetite for freedom and with a distinct purpose to fulfill. Therefore, their goal was to create a government that was most in harmony with God’s creation, most in line with rewarding and enhancing the positive aspects of human nature that lead to productive behavior, true stewardship, and the highly sought after praise of, “Well Done My Good and Faithful Servant.”

There’s a reason why immigrants have streamed into America for over two hundred years: it’s the greatest land of opportunity ever created. No matter where you come from, this is where you have a legitimate shot at designing your life and making your dreams come true. In America, your life can become an example for others to follow or a warning for others to heed. And this brings us to our earthly father and the annual tradition of Father’s Day.

Through their words, actions and investment in us, our dads teach us about life, bolster our reservoir of wisdom and shape the legacy they will leave behind with the life we lead. Unlike our heavenly Father, none of our dads is the perfect example for us to follow. But, that’s what God is for, right? However, the older I have become the wiser my dad certainly appears to be. Getting back to the basic in my own life essentially means getting back to the advice my dad always gives me. If we are fortunate, our dads are mentors, role models and coaches all rolled into one. Fully engaged fathers can help their kids dream, risk, serve, grow, bounce back from adversity and reach their full potential. By believing in us, our dads can help us to see ourselves as big as God created us to be…and this can make all the difference in the world.

This Father’s Day, we might all do well to remember and learn from our three fathers.

Dear Trey, Hope and Zach,

We have had the incredible blessing of living in the USA, where freedom and opportunity have been the cornerstones. Your great grandfather was an entrepreneur, and he put forth great diligence and effort to build a successful business in the furniture industry in Atlanta.

This business was passed down to my father (your grandfather) and it thrived for many years. It was ultimately wiped out by debt and the desire to grow too fast. That was the ultimate demise. Unwise choices caused the problem, not other people or the lack of government regulations.

In our country today, we are facing a deteriorating economy as the result of greed, incompetence and mismanagement. Too many people are attempting to live beyond their means, and we have a banking system that has conducted itself foolishly as well.

To make matters worse, our government is spending money it does not have, and plans to leave this unprecedented debt for you and your children to pay back. Think about what this might mean to your future hopes and dreams.

Remember that many of the problems we’re facing today are the result of a largely inept government interfering in the private sector and then blaming the private sector for the inevitable confusion and inefficiency that naturally follows such meddling. Using the economic crisis as his justification, our new President is attempting to diminish our individual freedom and opportunity to solve the problems.

But, this is no solution. America was built on a belief in God and the inalienable principles documented in the Bible!

We have no chance of succeeding and maintaining our individual freedom if we continue to distance ourselves from these founding principles. But this is the path we are on, and it is a prescription for disaster.

I am excited about each of you being parents and leaders in the next generation, but you need to be aware that the current administration appears to be putting obstacles in place to diminish your available freedom and upside opportunity when you grow up.

I know that you can be part of a real solution. I encourage you to stand up for the real principles. Be loud and refuse to back down. Never rely on government, but depend on God and be willing to personally pay the price of success in all areas of life.

As I write this letter, I am praying that you will have the wisdom to perceive what is true and what is false. Politicians will make promises for votes and power, but rest assured they can’t deliver the life that you de-serve.

I Love You Unconditionally!
Dad

DEAR MR. PRESIDENT

DEAR MR. PRESIDENT,

I HAVE THE HIGH HONOR AND DISTINCT PRIVILEGE of writing to you on behalf of millions of leading entrepreneurs, small business owners, salespeople, and executives whose creativity, work ethic, and personal responsibility make up the backbone of the American economic engine and therefore keep the American Dream alive.

These individuals have become highly paid because they are highly productive. For some reason, however, you do not refer to these Americans as “working people”—you typically call them “the rich.” But with all due respect Mr. President, they work indeed, often putting in sixty, seventy, and even eighty hour weeks in order to satisfy their customers and expand their businesses.

These are the most successful Americans who create vast numbers of jobs. And yet, contrary to your campaign promises of “hope” for all Americans, you have singled them out for condemnation and expropriation. You say we need to spread their wealth around in the interests of fairness. You vow to make them pay higher taxes, even though they already pay far more than anyone else. You bury their businesses in a morass of red-tape and useless regulation. You attempt to make the government—instead of their customers—the arbiter of their success.

Mr. President, I am writing to ask that you STOP THE WAR ON SUCCESS!

I have been working with entrepreneurs and small business owners and their families for nearly twenty years. The picture you paint of the free market, the business world, and successful business owners is totally foreign to me. You speak of successful Americans as if they’re all corrupt corporate CEOs. Do you not understand that many of the very people you denounce are small businessmen and businesswomen who earned their own wealth?

You speak of a rich man as selfish, but do you see the jobs he has created? You speak of him as having more than he needs, but did you see how little he had when he accepted the risk of starting his own business? You speak of luck, but did you see the years of misfortune that preceded his success? You speak of him as “privileged,” but have you heard that fewer than 20 percent of rich Americans inherited their wealth?

I have seen firsthand that these individuals have unbelievable work ethics and the highest integrity. Imaginative and innovative, they create jobs out of thin air. They treat their employees like family. They are compassionate and giving and donate a greater percentage of their income to churches and charities than public records reveal most of our elected officials do, including you and your vice president. Many have failed repeatedly, and yet they get back up and take another shot at excellence.

Mr. President, I do not know what it’s like to be a community organizer. I have no firsthand experience so I will keep my mouth shut and my pen silent on such matters. It is impossible to expect you, as president, to remain equally quiet about business matters. But perhaps your utter lack of experience in this realm should be cause for some humility. You have not taken the risks of starting and growing your own business or participating in the free marketplace at all. You do not understand what business really is; it is certainly not what you present it to be.

One can fairly ask why your commitment to spreading the wealth around only applies to business—and not to politics. For example, ­shouldn’t it apply to your position of President of the United States? By achieving this position, you have attained disproportionate status and power in your field. In politics, you are the “super-rich.” So ­shouldn’t you spread your political wealth around to those who have not been as fortunate as you? ­Doesn’t your enthusiasm for “redistributive justice” mean some of your enormous power should be taken from you and given to others who have less power?

This, no doubt, will sound ludicrous to you, as you worked hard for many years to get where you are today. Why should you have to give away the fruits of your own success? In your mind, it is only the entrepreneur whose success should be expropriated and spread around. The politically powerful, like yourself, are mysteriously exempt from the demands of equality.
Finally Mr. President, consider the message you are sending to America’s young people. I truly believe our greatest generations are still to come, but it will never happen if our children believe the messages transmitted by your rhetoric and policies: that no one can succeed on their own, that business is fundamentally dishonorable and dishonest, that only the government can save us from the depredations of businessmen and businesswomen, and that anyone who is financially successful is a societal parasite.

The entrepreneurial class you demonize is largely responsible for America’s high standard of living and its unprecedented pace of technological innovation. Think about the consequences of your relentless attack on these people and everything they represent—success, prosperity, upward mobility, and self-sufficiency. Whether through your rhetoric of class warfare or through your policies of expropriation and redistribution, you are undermining this vital group of Americans. America may indeed become more equal without these entrepreneurs, but it will be the equality of poverty and mediocrity, of underachievement and apathy.

And now I ask you, Mr. President: where’s the hope in that?

Time is running out.

Now that we have clearly spotted trouble ahead, we must fight back against the architects of the War on Success who aim to “remake” our country into their own image, into something our Founding Fathers never envisioned.

We must seize the opportunity to fight the forces that have undermined our nation’s foundation and threatened its economic, cultural, and moral health.

We can no longer deny the destructive growth of government in this country. Our national character is at risk of being lost forever or diluted beyond recognition.

As prudent, patriotic, and grateful citizens, we must not vote “present” at this critical juncture in our nation’s history. Now is the time to mobilize.

Please join me in the fight to STOP THE WAR ON SUCCESS!
www.thewaronsuccess.com

If he succeeds

George Gilder wrote beautifully and accurately about America’s economic catalyst, “Entrepreneur: He casts aside his assurance of 40-hour weeks, leaves the safe cover of tenure and security, and charges across the perilous fields of change and opportunity. If he succeeds, his profits will come not from what he takes from his fellow citizens, but from the value they freely place on the gift of his imagination.

We are at a defining moment, a turning point that will shape the rest of our lives and more importantly, that of our children and our grandchildren’s children. We must insert ourselves into the debate. We must get out of the stands and onto the field where we can influence the game that is being played with our future and our posterity.

We must refuse to lose this fight. We must refuse to abandon the principles that brought us this far, elevated our aspirations, and created unprecedented leaps in prosperity. We must refuse go along with the crowd just so we can get along. Doing what is popular is often NOT the right thing to do.

Isn’t this what we tell our children?

Popular or not, we must marshal all of our creative energy to stall the stubborn advance of socialization and the vices that accompany it. We cannot afford to experiment with the camouflaged, recycled, and disproven theories of social engineering.

We must STOP The War on Success!